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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

How To Clean Up for 2015

How To Clean Up for 2015

 
Cleaning Up For 2015

After the early morning's deluge of Typhoon Seniang which turned Lacson Street (particularly the Mandalagan area in front of Robinsons) into a mini-river, it is now time to move on and do the necessary cleaning in time for 2015.

Throughout the year we tend to accumulate a lot of stuff which we really don't need at all. At the same time, we realize that we are all getting older and there really is no point in hanging on to a lot of stuff which we intended to bequeath to our children who primarily do not view these items with the same eyes of sentimentalism.  They have their lives to live within much smaller spaces.  Most of them do not have the same sprawling bungalows we used to have.  Hence, we need to be kind to them and kind to ourselves. 

Here are my tips on how to effectively clean up before the New Year comes in.  Just remember the acronym SPACE.  That's what we need.  More SPACE.

SORT

Get 5 basic boxes or totes labeled: Trash, Repairs, Recycling, Give-Away, and Ambot. You may feel you need to add For Sale if necessary. Take the time to touch and reflect upon each possession you are considering letting go. Place unwanted possessions as you de-clutter. For Repairs be sure you are willing to the do repair soon, or don’t keep the item. Try to keep the Ambot box small.  This is for all the stuff we really have a ard time thinking of what to do; however, this box does come in handy so that you don’t get hung up on one item too long and stop the process.  At the end of the day (or when the timer goes off) put supplies or possessions that still need to be evaluated away neatly. Start fresh each time you work on the clutter instead of when you are feeling tired or overwhelmed. Sometimes you will get more done when you walk away and take a break.

PURGE

Remove the unwanted possessions right away. Right away means wihin the next two days. If you let it just sit in your space, you are starting new clutter towards which you may assign new feelings of guilt.

ASSIGN

Now is the time to start organizing the possessions you are keeping and to make decisions about where they will go in the room, or space. Try clearing out the room completely so that it is empty like the day you moved into your home.

CONTAINERIZE


Notice that this step is almost the last thing you do, not the first. So many people, after deciding to de-clutter and get organized, run out and buy a bunch of containers before they even know what they are going to keep. You can get a lot of these containers in all shapes and colors at Handyman or SM.

EQUALIZE

This last step is about you maintaining your space and staying in control of your clutter! There should be no stress involved when it is time to clean-up at the end of your day, because now everything you have kept should have a place.  Curbing impulsive shopping and buying will help you avoid clutter build-up while saving you money. Ask yourself, before you buy it, where will it go once I get it home? If you don’t know, don’t buy it. 

Happy New Year!












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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 23, 2014 : A Smashing STAR Party

Behind the Scenes - December 23, 2014 : A Smashing STAR Party
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


 The Visayan DAILY STAR's annual Christmas party this year was a unique Cowboy and Indian themed bash at Business Inn, where everyone came in various cowboy or Indian attires.

Everyone came in the mood to have fun and enjoy the camaraderie of the VDS group. Christmas songs were sung as the guests began arriving. Congressman Bing Leonardia dropped by to greet the crowd and left shortly for another party.

Singing diva Token Lizares arrived laden with gifts and prizes for the party. Dr. Bambi and Jonathan Avelino were there, and so were members of the Board, Paeng Golez and Tutay Corral.

Dinner was a marvelous array of scrumptious party fare, highlighted by two lechons with crispy skins that we kept going back for more.

After we had our fill of the delicious dinner, it was time for the entertainment portion. It began with a contest of production numbers by the various groups. The columnists were the first to perform a Christmas song number, followed by the Star Printing boys.

The Editorial group came fully prepared with a western backdrop, an Indian teepee complete with burning flames, and well-rehearsed dance number. Their performance was followed by an equally brilliant production by the Leo Star group, who showed dancing puppets, and Village People costumes, etc. The cowboys and girls of the Business Department, complete with hats, boots and guns, showed their dancing prowess to the tune of “Ang Kawawang Cowboy”.

Wow! What a performance! All the participants showed their talents in performing that night. The winners for the first prize was a tie between the Editorial and Leo Star, second – Business Department, third – Star Printing, and fourth - columnists.

The games were so riotous and funny, it had everyone in stitches. Fabulous prizes like DVDs, electric fans, food baskets and a 3 day and 2 nights trip to Boracay, courtesy of Radjie Caram, were given away at the end of the program, and made the party super fun for everyone.

It was a blast! MERRY CHRISTMAS to all!*

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 18, 2014 : NOGC Christmas party, induction

Behind the Scenes - December 18, 2014 : NOGC Christmas party, induction
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


Christmas came early to the members of the Negros Occidental Garden Club when they held a most exciting and enjoyable Christmas celebration and induction of officers recently at the Grand Ballroom of the Bacolod Pavillon Hotel.

Attire was strictly formal and everyone came in their most elegant and glamorous evening gowns with shimmering jewelry for the ladies and coat and tie or barong for the gentlemen. The Pavillon’s grand ballroom was bathed in glimmering lights with Christmas decors artfully displayed all over.

Dinner was served after the first part of the induction program was over. A wide array of delectable dishes gave us all a hearty dining experience. Aside from the lavish spread, there were four lechons so divinely crispy that diets and trim figures were quickly forgotten. It was obvious that those who came in their form-fitting gowns found it hard to exhale!

Bacolod Mayor Monico Puentevella, who came with wife Patching, was the inducting officer and guest speaker. After the new officers were inducted, outgoing past president Lourdes Mercado gave a farewell speech that had a tinge of nostalgia. The new president, Carissa Maalat, delivered her acceptance speech filled with vigor and a promise of exciting new things to come.

The members enjoyed the presentation of awards for perfect attendance, most number of groups, etc. In his speech, Puentevella invited the club to help the city in the forthcoming APEC affair next year, and the club members vigorously applauded the invitation.

The mood suddenly perked up during the Part 2 of the program, on the theme “An Enchanted Evening”. Gloria Gensoli and partner made the audience swoon with their sensuous and artful display of terpsichorean skills in “Night & Day”. This was followed by the NOGC Chorale’s rendition of “Some Enchanted Evening”, while beautiful NOGC ladies gave a dazzling fashion show wearing their glamorous attire.

It was like you were in Broadway with the presentations by various groups. The grand finale was the dramatic entrance of Santa Claus laden with gifts. A most fun-filled exchanging of gifts highlighted the program.

Wotta show! Kudos to the organizers for a very successful affair! MERRY CHRISTMAS to all!*

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 11, 2014 : A Party ‘Ruby’ Couldn’t Stop

Behind the Scenes - December 11, 2014 : A Party ‘Ruby’ Couldn’t Stop
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


The skies were dark with ominous clouds as threats of a super-typhoon called Ruby kept being aired by PAGASA on all the media for the last couple of days. But despite the warnings of foul weather, birthday celebrator Nene Rojas still remained optimistic that the weather would hold. His lovely wife, Lourdes, was equally confident and so the preparation for the grand birthday party was in full swing.

On the day itself, tables were set up in the spacious garden beside the pool for a romantic al fresco dinner but at the same time, extra tables were also placed indoors, just “in case.”

Soon, guests started arriving while the band played favorite songs until the venue was crowded with friends, admirers, relatives and fans of Nene, a man who is much admired and well-loved by all who know him. The perennial question on everybody’s lips was, “How does Nene stay so young and trim all these years?”

With his beguiling mysterious smile, Nene said he simply refused to grow old. He said a positive attitude always helps drive the blues away and being a stickler for ‘moderation in everything’ is a big help. To which we could only say, “Amen!”

Everyone enjoyed the scrumptious Japanese hors d’oeuvre washed down with excellent wine from Nene’s vast personal collection. Dinner was a feast of dining opulence. Lourdes really pulled out all the stops with a magnificent array of luxurious gastronomic delights. Our genial hosts saw to it that everyone had their fill of the splendid meal, divinely complemented by the exquisite dessert.

All too soon, it was time to say good night. On the way home, we asked ourselves what made the evening so special? The answer, of course, was the birthday celebrator himself. As everyone knows, Nene has this tremendous capacity for joy.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NENE!*

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Thursday, December 04, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 4, 2014 : Spellbound!

Behind the Scenes - December 4, 2014 : Spellbound!
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


Spellbound! This was the reaction of the enchanted A-list audience during the “Gershwin in Concerto in F” concert held recently at the Santuario de La Salle, Bacolod.

The audience, composed of the city’s literati, glitterati and culturati, sat in rapt attention all throughout the concert, that began with the awesome sounds of the 56-member Metro Manila Concert Orchestra (how young they were!), brilliantly conducted by maestro Josefino Chino Toledo. I was told that you would need a minimum of 55 players because of the instrumentations required for the Gershwin concerto.

Their majestic rendition of the Pambansang Awit was absolutely superb, making us all feel justifiably proud of our national anthem. From then on, we were caught under the spell of their repertoire of Philippine airs, Harry Potter Suite, selections from the Phantom of the Opera and Overture from Leonard Bernstein’s “Candide”.

A hush fell on the audience as the lovely star of the show, pianist Cristine Coyiuto, made her entrance in a shimmering fully-beaded aquamarine gown which was perfectly enhanced by her glittering diamond drop earrings as the ladies in the audience whispered a collective, “Wow!

With a dazzling display of dexterity, Cristine launched into the first movement as we were swept through the fascinating sounds of Gershwin’s composition rich with jazz inflections, Charleston rhythm and blues. The crowd was transfixed and the atmosphere electric as the concerto wove its magic. The artist played with masterful brilliance, marvelous intensity and when so required, an almost tender delicacy. We could see how passionate she was about her music as we watched the expression written on her face with her eyes closed.

As the last notes ended, a euphoric audience roared into cacophonic approval as they gave her a standing ovation amid shouts of, “More! More!” With a radiant smile, Cristine gave her encore number, “Embraceable You”, sending the romantics in the crowd into a different stratosphere.

What a performance! Bravo!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 27, 2014 : The Aussies are Here!

Behind the Scenes - November 27, 2014 : The Aussies are Here!
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


They’re here!

Around 45 Australian teenage students from Southern Hills Christian College in Perth, Australia arrived in Bacolod Sunday as part of their training and exposure to cultures in various parts of the world.

These tours give the students the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of others, learn invaluable lessons for themselves, and are given the opportunity to assist in an under-privileged community.

From the airport, we had them sample our famous chicken inasal at Chicken House, where the other customers were taken aback by the sight of the mostly blonde and blue-eyed teenagers filling up the entire restaurant. They even tried dipping their chicken in our indescribable local dipping sauce - the sinamak!

Plans are being drawn up to have an international school in Bacolod as a counterpart of Southern Hills Christian College. Who knows? Someday, the students in the international school here might go on a similar tour in Perth Australia as part of their curriculum!

Early the next day, the group was interviewed on ABS-CBN’s “The Morning Show”. Some of the televiewers inquired about the visiting Australians and were delighted to know that, in the past two years, the school has put up an orphanage in Brgy. Cabacungan, La Castellana in Negros Occidental. Last year, after their short stay with the orphans, the Aussie students even cried when they had to leave, as they had bonded with the orphans who stole their hearts. Their latest project is to put up a basketball court, comfort rooms and a training center in Sagay City to help out-of-school youths in the area.

What a wonderful character-building program this is, where young people are exposed to different cultures and circumstances. Welcome to Negros, boys and girls!*

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 20, 2014 : Bacolod Welcomes Coyiuto House

Behind the Scenes - November 20, 2014 : Bacolod Welcomes Coyiuto House
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


  The Coyiuto House in Bacolod opened its doors last Tuesday with a spectacular blessing and inauguration of the newly-renovated building of Prudential Guarantee and Assurance Inc., or PGAI. Rizal Street was closed to traffic for the event and all the guests were given car passes to enter the area.

When we arrived, the atmosphere was delightfully festive with the throbbing sounds and music of the MassKara Festival dancers and the Chinese dragon dancers performing in front of the Coyiuto House. On hand to welcome the A-list guests were Ramon Kilayko, senior vice president of Prudential Guarantee, and his son, Allan, senior manager of PGAI. Everyone wanted to meet the elegant Robert Coyiuto Jr., chairman of the Coyiuto Group of Companies and his equally gracious brother, James, senior VP and treasurer - PGAI, who both came with a party of 50 executives from Manila.

The affair was a glittering constellation of top local officials, movers and shakers, VIPs of the local business community, civic clubs and socialites.

After the blessing and cutting of ribbon, everyone trooped to the hall where the tables were set for the reception. We enjoyed the hors d’oeuvre, capped by an excellent red wine that flowed throughout the evening. A lavish buffet of gourmet delights sated our appetites as we listened to messages from the top executives of PGAI. Mayor Monico Puentevella lavishly praised the organizers for the superb handling of the event. The guests went home laden with party favors from the hosts.

Kudos to PGAI for a grand blessing and inauguration!*

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 13, 2014 : A Spectacular Diwali Festival

Behind the Scenes - November 13, 2014 : A Spectacular Diwali Festival
Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion


Last week, Bacolod City was again treated to another dazzling festival when the local Indian community held the colorful Diwali Festival, an ancient Hindu Festival celebrated in autumn each year.

To witness the Diwali Festival here is a scintillating experience as it is complete with a colorful display of Indian costumes, dances, exotic food and, of course, a sample of “Bollywood” dancing.

The festival opened with formal ceremonies at the Bacolod Government Center, with local government officials headed by Mayor Monico and first lady Patching Puentevella, members of the Sangguniang Panlungsod, former congressman John Orola, and civic leaders gracing the affair. Special guest was Ram Prasad, first secretary consular of the Embassy of India to the Philippines.

We were all warmly welcomed by members of the local Indian community to the ceremony, and then treated to an array of delicious, scrumptious Indian delicacies that we thoroughly enjoyed.

It was a most delightful learning experience for us who only know India through the movies, Ghandi, Passage to India, and the popular “Slumdog Millionaire”. We have read about the most romantic tribute to love, the Taj Mahal, and of course, have made the chicken curry, one of our favorite staples hereabouts. But there are more exciting things to learn about India and this festival has certainly opened our eyes.

The local Indian community has galvanized themselves into a dynamic group to make the people aware of the richness of their culture and traditions. Kudos to the organizers of the Indian Diwali Festival.
Thursday, November 13, 2014

A Breath of Fresh Air

A Breath of Fresh Air


What a breath of fresh air to read Bebol Carreon's column. I've gotten to the point where hers is the first column that I look for in the Sunstar (only that it doesn't come on a fixed day of the week).  Her articulate writing with quotes from authors we've missed in ages past gently draw the reader in.  She has a way of looking at the world that makes me smile.

She admits that she is new in this thing but the budding columnist demonstrates her skill for writing about both people and ideas interspersed with the events in the city.  I can only assume that it goes back to the way young girls were trained in language in the St. Scholastica's Academy.  Way back then, language was definitely considered an art.  It still is.  Only today, we've mangled it by using mixed dialects in one sentence or chopped up the spelling because of too much texting.

Now why do I consider her writing a breath of fresh air?  Let me put it this way - Bebol's musings are the respite I find amidst the stories of politics in Negros on one end and the newfangled social chronicles on the other by Edouard-Garcia-wannabes.  This is the quiet place where I stop and smell the roses and daydream back into the Bacolod I once knew.  It's the much needed intellectual stimulation which gently massages your thoughts without pressuring you to immediately take sides as most opinion columns beg for.

If you haven't read her articles, it's not too late.  Bebol has just begun.

http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2786/bebol-carreon



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Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Why People From Bacolod Spend Tomorrow's Money Today

Why People From Bacolod Spend Tomorrow's Money Today




Now listen here.  Your Tita will tell a story....

There is a saying that the people from Davao spend yesterday's money today, the people from Cebu spend today's money today, but the people from Bacolod spend ...well, tomorrow's money today.

How did it get to this point? What triggered such behavior? If you still have these lingering questions, allow me to take the first step in breaking apart the mystery.

Spending versus one's future earnings comes naturally to the Negrense. This was triggered before the turn of the 20th century when sugar as a product was picking up in terms of price in the world market. Demand was beginning to grow among the Commonwealth domains in South East Asia including Australia and New Zealand.

The principal catalyst in this little "Story of Sugar" is a man by the name of Nicholas Loney. He was the son of a British admiral, born in the naval town of Plymouth, and well-educated. He left England at the age of 24 to seek his fortune and travelled to South America, New Zealand, Australia, Singapore, and finally to the Philippines in 1852. He became a clerk in Manila of the British firm Ker & Co.

In 1856, Loney was assigned to Iloilo and became a vice-consul and eventually opened the firm of Loney & Ker & Co. In those days, British ships came to the Negros and Panay region to be loaded up with sugar for export to Australia and the other states in the region under the British flag. Once docked in the ports of Negros and Iloilo, the ships would be stationed for some time until it was fully loaded with sugar for export. Precious days were lost in this exercise.

To arrest the situation, sugar crops and produce were paid for in advance the year before so as not to hamper the loading of sugar on British vessels. This is where the practice of receiving money against standing crops began in the Philippines. From those days, the crop loan had entrenched its way into Negrense lifestyle. This was further fortified by the sugar quota system under the Jones-Costigan Act of 1934 wherein year on year, the Philippines had a great quota to fill, not only for the British but for the almighty US of A.

Imagine receiving the bumper reward of money months before the crops were to be harvested! Loney even convinced the American financial house of Russel & Sturgis to open a branch in the Negros-Panay region in order give crop loans to planters.

Now with cash on hand to spend long before the harvest has actually come, I guess I need not elaborate how Negrense decadence came about and how the phenomenon has become legendary.



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