Titas de Bacolod: 2014

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

How To Clean Up for 2015

Cleaning Up For 2015

After the early morning's deluge of Typhoon Seniang which turned Lacson Street (particularly the Mandalagan area in front of Robinsons) into a mini-river, it is now time to move on and do the necessary cleaning in time for 2015.

Throughout the year we tend to accumulate a lot of stuff which we really don't need at all. At the same time, we realize that we are all getting older and there really is no point in hanging on to a lot of stuff which we intended to bequeath to our children who primarily do not view these items with the same eyes of sentimentalism. They have their lives to live within much smaller spaces. Most of them do not have the same sprawling bungalows we used to have. Hence, we need to be kind to them and kind to ourselves.

Here are my tips on how to effectively clean up before the New Year comes in. Just remember the acronym SPACE. That's what we need. More SPACE.

SORT

Get 5 basic boxes or totes labeled: Trash, Repairs, Recycling, Give-Away, and Ambot. You may feel you need to add For Sale if necessary. Take the time to touch and reflect upon each possession you are considering letting go. Place unwanted possessions as you de-clutter. For Repairs be sure you are willing to the do repair soon, or don’t keep the item. Try to keep the Ambot box small. This is for all the stuff we really have a ard time thinking of what to do; however, this box does come in handy so that you don’t get hung up on one item too long and stop the process. At the end of the day (or when the timer goes off) put supplies or possessions that still need to be evaluated away neatly. Start fresh each time you work on the clutter instead of when you are feeling tired or overwhelmed. Sometimes you will get more done when you walk away and take a break.

PURGE

Remove the unwanted possessions right away. Right away means wihin the next two days. If you let it just sit in your space, you are starting new clutter towards which you may assign new feelings of guilt.

ASSIGN

Now is the time to start organizing the possessions you are keeping and to make decisions about where they will go in the room, or space. Try clearing out the room completely so that it is empty like the day you moved into your home.

CONTAINERIZE

Notice that this step is almost the last thing you do, not the first. So many people, after deciding to de-clutter and get organized, run out and buy a bunch of containers before they even know what they are going to keep. You can get a lot of these containers in all shapes and colors at Handyman or SM.

EQUALIZE

This last step is about you maintaining your space and staying in control of your clutter! There should be no stress involved when it is time to clean-up at the end of your day, because now everything you have kept should have a place. Curbing impulsive shopping and buying will help you avoid clutter build-up while saving you money. Ask yourself, before you buy it, where will it go once I get it home? If you don’t know, don’t buy it.

Happy New Year!

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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 23, 2014 : A Smashing STAR Party

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

The Visayan DAILY STAR's annual Christmas party this year was a unique Cowboy and Indian themed bash at Business Inn, where everyone came in various cowboy or Indian attires.

Everyone came in the mood to have fun and enjoy the camaraderie of the VDS group. Christmas songs were sung as the guests began arriving. Congressman Bing Leonardia dropped by to greet the crowd and left shortly for another party.

Singing diva Token Lizares arrived laden with gifts and prizes for the party. Dr. Bambi and Jonathan Avelino were there, and so were members of the Board, Paeng Golez and Tutay Corral.

Dinner was a marvelous array of scrumptious party fare, highlighted by two lechons with crispy skins that we kept going back for more.

After we had our fill of the delicious dinner, it was time for the entertainment portion. It began with a contest of production numbers by the various groups. The columnists were the first to perform a Christmas song number, followed by the Star Printing boys.

The Editorial group came fully prepared with a western backdrop, an Indian teepee complete with burning flames, and well-rehearsed dance number. Their performance was followed by an equally brilliant production by the Leo Star group, who showed dancing puppets, and Village People costumes, etc. The cowboys and girls of the Business Department, complete with hats, boots and guns, showed their dancing prowess to the tune of “Ang Kawawang Cowboy”.

Wow! What a performance! All the participants showed their talents in performing that night. The winners for the first prize was a tie between the Editorial and Leo Star, second – Business Department, third – Star Printing, and fourth - columnists.

The games were so riotous and funny, it had everyone in stitches. Fabulous prizes like DVDs, electric fans, food baskets and a 3 day and 2 nights trip to Boracay, courtesy of Radjie Caram, were given away at the end of the program, and made the party super fun for everyone.

It was a blast! MERRY CHRISTMAS to all!*

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 18, 2014 : NOGC Christmas party, induction

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Christmas came early to the members of the Negros Occidental Garden Club when they held a most exciting and enjoyable Christmas celebration and induction of officers recently at the Grand Ballroom of the Bacolod Pavillon Hotel.

Attire was strictly formal and everyone came in their most elegant and glamorous evening gowns with shimmering jewelry for the ladies and coat and tie or barong for the gentlemen. The Pavillon’s grand ballroom was bathed in glimmering lights with Christmas decors artfully displayed all over.

Dinner was served after the first part of the induction program was over. A wide array of delectable dishes gave us all a hearty dining experience. Aside from the lavish spread, there were four lechons so divinely crispy that diets and trim figures were quickly forgotten. It was obvious that those who came in their form-fitting gowns found it hard to exhale!

Bacolod Mayor Monico Puentevella, who came with wife Patching, was the inducting officer and guest speaker. After the new officers were inducted, outgoing past president Lourdes Mercado gave a farewell speech that had a tinge of nostalgia. The new president, Carissa Maalat, delivered her acceptance speech filled with vigor and a promise of exciting new things to come.

The members enjoyed the presentation of awards for perfect attendance, most number of groups, etc. In his speech, Puentevella invited the club to help the city in the forthcoming APEC affair next year, and the club members vigorously applauded the invitation.

The mood suddenly perked up during the Part 2 of the program, on the theme “An Enchanted Evening”. Gloria Gensoli and partner made the audience swoon with their sensuous and artful display of terpsichorean skills in “Night & Day”. This was followed by the NOGC Chorale’s rendition of “Some Enchanted Evening”, while beautiful NOGC ladies gave a dazzling fashion show wearing their glamorous attire.

It was like you were in Broadway with the presentations by various groups. The grand finale was the dramatic entrance of Santa Claus laden with gifts. A most fun-filled exchanging of gifts highlighted the program.

Wotta show! Kudos to the organizers for a very successful affair! MERRY CHRISTMAS to all!*

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 11, 2014 : A Party ‘Ruby’ Couldn’t Stop

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

The skies were dark with ominous clouds as threats of a super-typhoon called Ruby kept being aired by PAGASA on all the media for the last couple of days. But despite the warnings of foul weather, birthday celebrator Nene Rojas still remained optimistic that the weather would hold. His lovely wife, Lourdes, was equally confident and so the preparation for the grand birthday party was in full swing.

On the day itself, tables were set up in the spacious garden beside the pool for a romantic al fresco dinner but at the same time, extra tables were also placed indoors, just “in case.”

Soon, guests started arriving while the band played favorite songs until the venue was crowded with friends, admirers, relatives and fans of Nene, a man who is much admired and well-loved by all who know him. The perennial question on everybody’s lips was, “How does Nene stay so young and trim all these years?”

With his beguiling mysterious smile, Nene said he simply refused to grow old. He said a positive attitude always helps drive the blues away and being a stickler for ‘moderation in everything’ is a big help. To which we could only say, “Amen!”

Everyone enjoyed the scrumptious Japanese hors d’oeuvre washed down with excellent wine from Nene’s vast personal collection. Dinner was a feast of dining opulence. Lourdes really pulled out all the stops with a magnificent array of luxurious gastronomic delights. Our genial hosts saw to it that everyone had their fill of the splendid meal, divinely complemented by the exquisite dessert.

All too soon, it was time to say good night. On the way home, we asked ourselves what made the evening so special? The answer, of course, was the birthday celebrator himself. As everyone knows, Nene has this tremendous capacity for joy.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NENE!*

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Thursday, December 04, 2014

Behind the Scenes - December 4, 2014 : Spellbound!

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

Spellbound! This was the reaction of the enchanted A-list audience during the “Gershwin in Concerto in F” concert held recently at the Santuario de La Salle, Bacolod.

The audience, composed of the city’s literati, glitterati and culturati, sat in rapt attention all throughout the concert, that began with the awesome sounds of the 56-member Metro Manila Concert Orchestra (how young they were!), brilliantly conducted by maestro Josefino Chino Toledo. I was told that you would need a minimum of 55 players because of the instrumentations required for the Gershwin concerto.

Their majestic rendition of the Pambansang Awit was absolutely superb, making us all feel justifiably proud of our national anthem. From then on, we were caught under the spell of their repertoire of Philippine airs, Harry Potter Suite, selections from the Phantom of the Opera and Overture from Leonard Bernstein’s “Candide”.

A hush fell on the audience as the lovely star of the show, pianist Cristine Coyiuto, made her entrance in a shimmering fully-beaded aquamarine gown which was perfectly enhanced by her glittering diamond drop earrings as the ladies in the audience whispered a collective, “Wow!

With a dazzling display of dexterity, Cristine launched into the first movement as we were swept through the fascinating sounds of Gershwin’s composition rich with jazz inflections, Charleston rhythm and blues. The crowd was transfixed and the atmosphere electric as the concerto wove its magic. The artist played with masterful brilliance, marvelous intensity and when so required, an almost tender delicacy. We could see how passionate she was about her music as we watched the expression written on her face with her eyes closed.

As the last notes ended, a euphoric audience roared into cacophonic approval as they gave her a standing ovation amid shouts of, “More! More!” With a radiant smile, Cristine gave her encore number, “Embraceable You”, sending the romantics in the crowd into a different stratosphere.

What a performance! Bravo!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 27, 2014 : The Aussies are Here!

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

They’re here!

Around 45 Australian teenage students from Southern Hills Christian College in Perth, Australia arrived in Bacolod Sunday as part of their training and exposure to cultures in various parts of the world.

These tours give the students the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of others, learn invaluable lessons for themselves, and are given the opportunity to assist in an under-privileged community.

From the airport, we had them sample our famous chicken inasal at Chicken House, where the other customers were taken aback by the sight of the mostly blonde and blue-eyed teenagers filling up the entire restaurant. They even tried dipping their chicken in our indescribable local dipping sauce - the sinamak!

Plans are being drawn up to have an international school in Bacolod as a counterpart of Southern Hills Christian College. Who knows? Someday, the students in the international school here might go on a similar tour in Perth Australia as part of their curriculum!

Early the next day, the group was interviewed on ABS-CBN’s “The Morning Show”. Some of the televiewers inquired about the visiting Australians and were delighted to know that, in the past two years, the school has put up an orphanage in Brgy. Cabacungan, La Castellana in Negros Occidental. Last year, after their short stay with the orphans, the Aussie students even cried when they had to leave, as they had bonded with the orphans who stole their hearts. Their latest project is to put up a basketball court, comfort rooms and a training center in Sagay City to help out-of-school youths in the area.

What a wonderful character-building program this is, where young people are exposed to different cultures and circumstances. Welcome to Negros, boys and girls!*

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 20, 2014 : Bacolod Welcomes Coyiuto House

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

The Coyiuto House in Bacolod opened its doors last Tuesday with a spectacular blessing and inauguration of the newly-renovated building of Prudential Guarantee and Assurance Inc., or PGAI. Rizal Street was closed to traffic for the event and all the guests were given car passes to enter the area.

When we arrived, the atmosphere was delightfully festive with the throbbing sounds and music of the MassKara Festival dancers and the Chinese dragon dancers performing in front of the Coyiuto House. On hand to welcome the A-list guests were Ramon Kilayko, senior vice president of Prudential Guarantee, and his son, Allan, senior manager of PGAI. Everyone wanted to meet the elegant Robert Coyiuto Jr., chairman of the Coyiuto Group of Companies and his equally gracious brother, James, senior VP and treasurer - PGAI, who both came with a party of 50 executives from Manila.

The affair was a glittering constellation of top local officials, movers and shakers, VIPs of the local business community, civic clubs and socialites.

After the blessing and cutting of ribbon, everyone trooped to the hall where the tables were set for the reception. We enjoyed the hors d’oeuvre, capped by an excellent red wine that flowed throughout the evening. A lavish buffet of gourmet delights sated our appetites as we listened to messages from the top executives of PGAI. Mayor Monico Puentevella lavishly praised the organizers for the superb handling of the event. The guests went home laden with party favors from the hosts.

Kudos to PGAI for a grand blessing and inauguration!*

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Behind the Scenes - November 13, 2014 : A Spectacular Diwali Festival

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

Last week, Bacolod City was again treated to another dazzling festival when the local Indian community held the colorful Diwali Festival, an ancient Hindu Festival celebrated in autumn each year.

To witness the Diwali Festival here is a scintillating experience as it is complete with a colorful display of Indian costumes, dances, exotic food and, of course, a sample of “Bollywood” dancing.

The festival opened with formal ceremonies at the Bacolod Government Center, with local government officials headed by Mayor Monico and first lady Patching Puentevella, members of the Sangguniang Panlungsod, former congressman John Orola, and civic leaders gracing the affair. Special guest was Ram Prasad, first secretary consular of the Embassy of India to the Philippines.

We were all warmly welcomed by members of the local Indian community to the ceremony, and then treated to an array of delicious, scrumptious Indian delicacies that we thoroughly enjoyed.

It was a most delightful learning experience for us who only know India through the movies, Ghandi, Passage to India, and the popular “Slumdog Millionaire”. We have read about the most romantic tribute to love, the Taj Mahal, and of course, have made the chicken curry, one of our favorite staples hereabouts. But there are more exciting things to learn about India and this festival has certainly opened our eyes.

The local Indian community has galvanized themselves into a dynamic group to make the people aware of the richness of their culture and traditions. Kudos to the organizers of the Indian Diwali Festival.

Thursday, November 13, 2014

A Breath of Fresh Air

What a breath of fresh air to read Bebol Carreon's column. I've gotten to the point where hers is the first column that I look for in the Sunstar (only that it doesn't come on a fixed day of the week). Her articulate writing with quotes from authors we've missed in ages past gently draw the reader in. She has a way of looking at the world that makes me smile.

She admits that she is new in this thing but the budding columnist demonstrates her skill for writing about both people and ideas interspersed with the events in the city. I can only assume that it goes back to the way young girls were trained in language in the St. Scholastica's Academy. Way back then, language was definitely considered an art. It still is. Only today, we've mangled it by using mixed dialects in one sentence or chopped up the spelling because of too much texting.

Now why do I consider her writing a breath of fresh air? Let me put it this way - Bebol's musings are the respite I find amidst the stories of politics in Negros on one end and the newfangled social chronicles on the other by Edouard-Garcia-wannabes. This is the quiet place where I stop and smell the roses and daydream back into the Bacolod I once knew. It's the much needed intellectual stimulation which gently massages your thoughts without pressuring you to immediately take sides as most opinion columns beg for.

If you haven't read her articles, it's not too late. Bebol has just begun.

http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2786/bebol-carreon

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Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Why People From Bacolod Spend Tomorrow's Money Today

Issues, Negros

Now listen here. Your Tita will tell a story....

There is a saying that the people from Davao spend yesterday's money today, the people from Cebu spend today's money today, but the people from Bacolod spend ...well, tomorrow's money today.

How did it get to this point? What triggered such behavior? If you still have these lingering questions, allow me to take the first step in breaking apart the mystery.

Spending versus one's future earnings comes naturally to the Negrense. This was triggered before the turn of the 20th century when sugar as a product was picking up in terms of price in the world market. Demand was beginning to grow among the Commonwealth domains in South East Asia including Australia and New Zealand.

The principal catalyst in this little "Story of Sugar" is a man by the name of Nicholas Loney. He was the son of a British admiral, born in the naval town of Plymouth, and well-educated. He left England at the age of 24 to seek his fortune and travelled to South America, New Zealand, Australia, Singapore, and finally to the Philippines in 1852. He became a clerk in Manila of the British firm Ker & Co.

In 1856, Loney was assigned to Iloilo and became a vice-consul and eventually opened the firm of Loney & Ker & Co. In those days, British ships came to the Negros and Panay region to be loaded up with sugar for export to Australia and the other states in the region under the British flag. Once docked in the ports of Negros and Iloilo, the ships would be stationed for some time until it was fully loaded with sugar for export. Precious days were lost in this exercise.

To arrest the situation, sugar crops and produce were paid for in advance the year before so as not to hamper the loading of sugar on British vessels. This is where the practice of receiving money against standing crops began in the Philippines. From those days, the crop loan had entrenched its way into Negrense lifestyle. This was further fortified by the sugar quota system under the Jones-Costigan Act of 1934 wherein year on year, the Philippines had a great quota to fill, not only for the British but for the almighty US of A.

Imagine receiving the bumper reward of money months before the crops were to be harvested! Loney even convinced the American financial house of Russel & Sturgis to open a branch in the Negros-Panay region in order give crop loans to planters.

Now with cash on hand to spend long before the harvest has actually come, I guess I need not elaborate how Negrense decadence came about and how the phenomenon has become legendary.

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Thursday, October 30, 2014

Behind the Scenes - October 30, 2014 : Leaves are Supposed to Fall Not People

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

“Have you had any falls in the last 12 months?” was the first question that Jonathan Fidel Zulueta asked the audience during a gathering of the WoW Club members at the GT Hotel in Bacolod City recently.

Jonathan is a former Bacoleño, who has been a successful physiotherapist in London for the past years. When the club learned from his mother, Virgie Fidel Zulueta, who is also a WoW member, that Jonathan was coming to Bacolod for a visit, the WoW president, Inday Pefianco, immediately invited him to talk to the club members and some invited guests from other clubs in Bacolod, on how ageing affects balance and what older folks can do to avoid injury.

The WoW members came to the gathering wearing their MassKara masks for the Best in Mask contest. Everyone waited with anticipation to hear what Jonathan would say. The minute Jonathan went up front, there was a buzz among the ladies. He certainly impressed the crowd with his clean-cut looks and suave manner. The audience tittered when told that he was still a bachelor and “very available”.

Thus, when Jonathan asked his first question, most of the ladies raised their hands. He then launched into a very interesting lecture on why older people are prone to falling and what can be done about it. We were asked to perform simple exercises to find out how balanced we are. It was a mind-opening experience.

One of the exercises he recommended was tai chi, that he said would be very good for proper balance. He also gave us tips on simple exercises that we can do while performing our daily tasks. The audience peppered him with lots of questions and he answered each one with authority. The thing he emphasized the most was to keep exercising to keep the body in good shape.

What an interesting evening it was. Kudos to the WoW organizers for putting up such activities where we learn so much.*

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Behind the Scenes - October 23, 2014 : Bacolod's Newest Attractions

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

“Stupendous!”

This was how the huge crowd described the P1.5 billion SM City Bacolod expanded north wing at its inauguration last week. The affair was attended by top local officials as well as Hans Sy, president of SM Prime Holdings, who came with top Manila executives of the company.

It was certainly an awesome experience to walk around the gleaming edifice that spelled opulence and luxury at every corner. The new section is almost double the size of the original mall. It features 200 more retail stores for global and national brands. Our eyes were mesmerized by the grand atrium and amazing cyberzone.

Being a hopeless foodie, I quickly checked out the new Food Court that is bigger and grander than ever. I was told that this area was designed by a famous Australian designer, that spells “world class”. Smiling faces and delicious aroma greeted me at each turn. I even got a most scrumptious serving of “to-die-for” Italian pasta given away by a famous Italian food concessionaire. Yummy!

The next day, I was again at SM for the opening of the new 4,000-seater SMX Convention Center. It was fantabulous! Really something to rave about, with its humongous size and ultra-modern accoutrements. The place was overflowing with VIPs, guests and program performers for the opening of the First Bacolod Trade, Expo and Conferences.

Special guests were Mark Lapid, chief operating officer of the Tourism Infrastructure & Enterprise Zone Authority, who impressed the audience with his movie star good looks, and Senator Cynthia Villar, who couldn't help raving at the new addition to the attractions of Bacolod City.

One of the booths opened was the Orola Group of Companies and VMA Global College that presented its accomplishments in education, maritime industry, overseas employment, and promotion of southern Bacolod for eco-tourism.*

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Thursday, October 09, 2014

Behind the Scenes - October 9, 2014 : A Spectacular Homecoming

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

It was a glorious Ruby Jubilee celebration that the 40th La Consolacion College High School Class '69 held in Bacolod City recently. The group decided to hold a reunion every five years thereafter, realizing that “we are not getting any younger and so we shouldenjoyeach reunion to the fullestas if it will be our last”.

So,for their45th class reunionspearheaded by classmates from theU.S.A. and in agreement with classmates from PH, the plan for the LCC High School Class '69 45th alumni homecoming materialized.

It was a three-day affair with the overall theme of "Kalipay sa Pag-Inupdanay". The venue of the first two days was Sta. Fe Resort where everybody stayed at the cottages while bonding with teachers and former classmates. Everyone had a great timereminiscing about the good old days of their high school life. Every night, there was an event with its own theme and attire.

The highlight was the “Glamour Night" held at the Sta. Fe Resort Cactus Hall.The gentlemen looked so handsome in their sartorial elegance while the ladieslooked über-gorgeous and veryglamorous indeed in theirdazzling, beaded eveninggowns. There was fantastic entertainment with singing, dancing andafashion showof the 60s by the children and relativesof Class '69, followed by “dancing till you dropped” with The Buklod Band.

The day after, a sumptuous lunch was held at The Virginia Hall, followed by thecolorful"Caribbean Night" at the Cactus Hall,sponsored by classmates from the Philippines as host. There was a variety show ofgames, dancesand “Best in Costume” contests. The atmosphere was very festive and colorful, with the guests savoring the superb cuisine. The contestants looked fabulousand radiant in their snazzycostumes. There werelots of prizesgiven away!

On the third day, the group joined the LCC motorcade around the city and mass at the LCCauditorium. Then the "Luau Night" was held at Anne Seago's place inVilla Angela to celebrate the birthdays of September celebrators Editha Jolingan Benjamin, Mabel Jayme, Coca Yolola, Lydia Lacson and Menchu Cuadra Kabigting. A slumber party at the same place culminated the three-day affair, where classmates spent the last night bonding.

What a reunion!Its success was due to the full cooperation and support of every member of Class 69, who all played a vital role in making the event a reality. Mabuhay ang LCC High School Class '69!*

Thursday, October 2, 2014

Thursday, October 02, 2014

Behind the Scenes - October 2, 2014 : A Most Romantic Wedding

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

It was one of the happiest weddings we’ve ever been to (and we’ve been to so many). The wedding ceremony of Joebert and Jen (Concepcion) Leonardia last Saturday afternoon at the Birhen sang Barangay Chapel at Santa Clara Subdivision was an intimate family affair with mostly family and close friends present.

Joebert looked so happy as he marched down the aisle with his parents Nene and Mellie Leonardia. The principal sponsors looked elegant in their rose pink gowns for the ladies and barong for the gents. Suddenly, there was a collective gasp of admiration from the crowd as the radiant bride appeared in her stunning wedding gown. She glided down the aisle while the violin played the haunting theme “For A Thousand Years” from the movie, “Twilight”. I noticed that this beautiful song seems to be the romantic favorite during weddings or any affair in town. Fr. Ruel Jundos officiated at the wedding mass and gave a most meaningful homily.

After the wedding ceremony, everyone trooped to L’Fisher Hotel where refreshing cocktails and canapés were served. Soon, the doors to La Proa were opened and guests oohed and aahed at the fabulous décor of the grand ballroom. Adding to the romantic ambience of roses, orchids and tiger lilies at each table were huge swaths of shimmering white cloths billowing from the ceiling highlighted by dramatic lights and the glow of chandeliers.

Seen among the guests was Senator Juan Edgardo “Sonny” Angara, a good friend of the groom’s brother Glenn. A musical fanfare was heard and the arrival of the newlyweds was met with rousing applause. After the prayer before meals, everyone enjoyed the delectable array of mouth-watering dishes specially prepared for the occasion.

The groom’s father Adolfo (Nene) gave a heartfelt speech where he spoke of the secret of a happy marriage: patience, humility, mutual understanding and most of all, love. This guy sure knows whereof he speaks, judging from the successful 45 years of his married life with wife, Mellie. There were other speeches from the best man, bride’s best friend, etc. Family members also rendered songs to the delight of the audience. Laughter and cheers could be heard during the brief audio-visual presentation showing the couple and their friends. Dancing and singing went on, nobody wanted to leave until past midnight.

To Joebert and Jen, we wish you all the happiness in your married life. Cheers!*

Monday, September 22, 2014

Behind The Scenes - September 25, 2014 : Big Night at Casa Orola

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

When John Orola throws a party, you can be sure it’s done with flair and pizzazz.

Last weekend, Casa Orola was filled with lights, music and sounds of people’s laughter to celebrate the birthday of his sister, Fannie Balenia, and to welcome the VIP executives of Swan Christian Education Ass. Inc., the Australian group from Perth, who came to finalize plans for putting up an international school in Bacolod: Southern Hills Christian International School.

The Aussies were delighted with the turn-of-the-century, old-world charm of Casa Orola, that they found most interesting, while British guests Hazel Stuart and Robert Harland were busy filming the affair for a TV documentary.

The evening started well, everybody feeling at ease over wine and hors d’oeuvres. Dinner was a superb presentation of dining pleasure with an array of epicurean delights specially created for the occasion. The biggest hit for the Aussies was our very own lechon that they enjoyed with an excellent paella.

The guests were blown away with the varied repertoire of the entertainment: good-looking Rey Segovia, who sang ala Michael Buble; Nick Tugaff with his magnificent Pavarotti-like tenor that shook the chandeliers, accompanied by the thunderous piano of musical guru, Norma Garbanzos. Our cheeky host John even got me to sing with him “C’est Magnifique”, while soprano Hazel Stuart sang “Wouldn’t It Be Loverly” from My Fair Lady. (Julie Andrews, eat your heart out!). Not to be outdone, our Aussie guests bravely performed “Waltzing Matilda” to the delight of the crowd.

Wotta night! I’m sure our guests from Down Under still haven’t recovered from the crazy way we let our hair down at parties. After all, it’s more fun in the Philippines, isn’t it? Kudos to John, our host with the most! You’re a hard act to follow, my friend!*

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Behind The Scenes - September 18, 2014 : Soroptimist Int’l of Bacolod

Behind the Scenes with Ivy Visitacion

The ladies looked fabulous in their smart uniforms and the guests enjoyed themselves immensely during the Soroptimist International of Bacolod’s installation of officers and induction of new members, held recently at L’Fisher Hotel.

The noontime affair opened with the processional of past presidents, officers and members of the club. Lunch followed immediately after the acknowledgement of the guests and welcome remarks by president-elect Sonya Verdeflor. A special entertainment number was performed by Haironezza Abdullah, who enchanted the audience with her brilliant soprano as she sang the haunting love theme, “A Thousand Years”, from the movie, “Twilight”.

A funny moment occurred when the emcee introduced Bacolod Vice Mayor Greg Gasataya as “Vice-President”, which made Gasataya look quizzically around the room. He said later he thought Vice President Jejomar Binay had arrived!

After the induction of new members and installation officers, a moving candle lighting ceremony was held. Melba Tan gave a wonderful valedictory address. The new president, Em Ang, impressed the crowd with her splendid acceptance speech. After Dr. Cecile Salvador’s rousing introduction of the guest speaker, we were all raring to listen to Myra Paz Abubakar, SIPR governor, who braved the bad weather due to typhoon “Luis”, to come all the way from Zamboanga City to attend the affair. She looked like a beauty queen with her towering height and dusky complexion. She was after all, a former Miss Zamboanga. (We noticed her similarity to our own beauty queen, Miss Centennial Carmela Arcoles Gamboa). Her excellent speech did justice to her impeccable credentials. She is also a city councilor of Zamboanga.

Kudos to the Soroptimist Int’l of Bacolod for a successful and well-organized affair.*

Thursday, September 11, 2014

Behind The Scenes - September 11, 2014 : A New Japanese Resto

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People in Bacolod have come to love Japanese food for its simplicity and freshness, highlighted by the neatness of its presentation. They look forward to the subtle flavors of each dish, the textures and the quality of its ingredients.

Recently, we attended the soft opening of the new Japanese restaurant – Nippon Ichi – at the second floor of Villa Angela Hi Strip at Circumferential Road in Bacolod. As soon as we stepped in the cool and elegant surroundings, we were warmly welcomed by the owners, Dr. Yutaka Ichikawa and his lovely Filipina wife, Nonita Gurio Sugiyami.

Soon, guests filled up the dining room bedazzled by its zen-like ambiance. We were particularly impressed by the top-of-the-line comfort room with its ultra modern fixtures – a toilet bowl that automatically opens when the user comes near (look Ma, no hands!).

I asked Yutaka why they decided to open a Japanese resto here and he said they love eating out with his family but they wanted an authentic Japanese restaurant to cater to their needs. Hence, they decided to open Nippon Ichi that features Kazumi Kimura, a celebrity chef for 35 years from the Ginza District in Japan. Incidentally, chef Kimura is still single (!)

As soon as we were settled at our table, we sampled the fantastic menu. For foodies like us, it was a most enjoyable evening, indeed.*

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Thursday, September 04, 2014

Behind The Scenes - September 4, 2014 : Happy Get-togethers

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We've been to two cozy, intimate gathering of friends, that we really enjoyed recently.

One was the birthday celebration of Bacolod's glamour lady, Edith Robillo, who celebrated her natal day with a sumptuous lunch at Bob's Restaurant, Robinsons Bacolod. Her guests, composed of close friends and members of her various civic organizations, soon filled up the two long tables of the resto. Edith told everyone to choose their preferences and soon, the waiters were very busy taking down the orders of the noisy group. I noticed that sizzling steak was the favorite choice of most of the guests.

The place was soon buzzing with laughter and stories from the group, who sang Happy Birthday to our beaming celebrator. She happily informed us that Congressman Bing Leonardia called her from Manila to wish her a Happy Birthday. Soon, the aroma of sizzling steaks whetted our appetites and in no time flat, we demolished the juicy meal set before us.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Edith!

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Behind The Scenes - August 21, 2014 : 12th Waling-Waling Festival

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The Negros Occidental Orchid Society presented its much-awaited 12 th Waling-Waling Festival recently, at the Fountain Area of Robinsons Place Bacolod, highlighted by the launching of a commemorative magazine in honor of the late Julie Benedicto, founder and first president of the NOOS.

Tita Julie, as she was fondly called, firmly believed that the majestic Waling-Waling deserved to be recognized as the “Queen of Orchids” in the Philippines. Truly, the Waling-Waling is a sight to behold – in shimmering colors of vermilion, burgundy, pink, cerise and lavender. This native orchid that blooms only in August, spells love beyond time and space.

The entire fountain area was magically transformed into a spectacular orchid garden with different varieties in full bloom, drawing raves and gasps of delight from the guests. The festival opened with the club members looking lovely in their colorful Filipiniana attire.

After the ribbon-cutting, Fr. Nomer Esposado held the blessing of the exhibit and booths. NOOS president Ana Mercedes Gatuslao gave the welcome address and treasurer Valentina Benedicto read the special tribute to Benedicto, written by Ponchit Ponce Enrile, former NOOS president. A tribute by Bacolod Mayor Monico Puentevella was also read by Patching Puentevella. A song number was performed a cap pella by Dennis Lutao. The finale was the launching of the commemorative magazine in honor of Tita Julie, who will always be remembered as “a very gracious, unassuming, prayerful and generous lady with a pure heart”.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Behind The Scenes - August 14, 2014 : Dr. Rudy Patiño’s Birthday Bash

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“Omigosh, Wow!”

This was the inevitable reaction of guests to Dr. Rudy Patiño’s newly renovated house in Silay, during his birthday celebration recently. We were happily surprised to see the front lawn spruced up with plants and greens, creating a fitting entrance to the house.

Our affable and genial host greeted us warmly and immediately led us to a tour of his spectacular bedroom, which simply took our breaths away. The room was enormous with a sunken entertainment area done in immaculate white. His fine collection of huge reproductions of famous paintings in Europe dominates the entire room. Various objects d’ art were strategically placed to enhance the effect. The king-sized bed looked so inviting that our whole group couldn’t resist sitting on it for a photo op with former Rep. Kako Lacson.

Dr. Rudy then led us to his incredible bathroom which was as huge as an entire living room. Various works of art filled the room, including a beautiful chandelier, giving it a romantic glow. We noticed the top-of-the-line accoutrements for the toilet and bath. My goodness, one would feel like a king to bathe in a place like this!

When asked who was his interior designer, Dr. Rudy smilingly said, “That’s me!”

Soon, the rest of the guests arrived and everyone indulged in the gustatory pleasures the doctor had tastefully laid out especially for guests. It was a delightful evening of fine friends, who enjoyed each other’s company amid a very welcoming relaxed ambience.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DR RUDY!*

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Thursday, August 07, 2014

Behind The Scenes - August 7, 2014 : Laughter at Sunshine Boys' Party

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Ever been to a well-dressed party where the guests kept laughing all night?

Well, this happened recently during the Sunshine Boys' joint birthday celebration at L'Fisher Hotel. Birthday celebrators, Drs. Ricardo Yanson, Serafin Jimena Jr. and Ed Mercado, Pompeyo Querubin, Judge Jesus Ramos and Milque Benedicto, were all a picture of sartorial elegance in their formal coat and tie attires. They certainly gave a party with style, even giving away raffle cash prizes from P2,000 up to P10,000!

Most of the specially invited guests were the WOW ladies, who came dressed to the nines, led by president Inday Pefianco. Wine flowed all night as the hosts mingled, making chica-chica and photo ops with their lovely guests. The always witty emcee, Monet Rojas, who was later joined by the equally witty, William Mirano, carried the ball all throughout the entertaining program with his adlibs and bon mots.

Even Bacolod Mayor Monico Puentevella sang, “It's a Wonderful World” for the birthday celebrators. This was followed by a special guest from Dumaguete City, Nene Belloso, who sang, “My Way”.

Dinner was excellent. Everyone enjoyed the array of superb dishes especially prepared for the occasion. After the meal, Monet introduced a very funny guest performer, Norman Mitchell, a stand-up comedian, singer and stage personality, who brought the house down with his antics and jokes. His side-splitting performance left the audience weak from laughing so much. He even got everyone to sing along with him (how on earth did he ever do that!), with the songs, “Matilda”, and “Day-O”.

I tell you, I have never laughed so hard at a party in all my life! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SUNSHINE BOYS!*

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Behind The Scenes - July 31, 2014 : A Wedding to Remember

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The moment I stepped into the Queen of Peace Parish for the elegant afternoon wedding of Erween Calvo and Jessica Ho, I was struck by how attractive and good-looking the bridal entourage and guests were.

Everyone was dressed to the nines - the ladies in their glamorous gowns and the gents in coat and tie. Motif of the wedding was peach and Tiffany green.

The first time Erween saw Jessica, he was gobsmacked by her beauty and he said to himself, “This is the girl I’m going to marry”. He wooed her until she said yes, but marriage still had to wait for another six years. Erween had to pursue his college course at West End College in London where he earned a postgraduate Diploma in Management Studies. In the meantime, Jessica left for the UK to work as a nurse at Clementine Churchill Hospital in London. Yet they kept their love burning brightly through emails, long distance calls, skype, etc.

Finally, the long-awaited wedding day came. Erween stood nervously at the altar as his bride walked down the aisle while a string quartet played gently in the background. The violin wrought its magic with the hauntingly beautiful love theme, “A Thousand Years” from the movie, “Twilight”.

The crowd oohed and aahed at Jessica’s fabulous wedding gown, highlighted by a giant petal skirt adorned with shimmering beads.

The wedding reception was held at L’Fisher Hotel where the guests feasted on superbly prepared cuisine while the couple made a surprise exhibition dance number. A most touching moment was the father of the bride’s emotional speech where he revealed that he didn’t want her to marry at first because in his eyes, she was still his little girl. But seeing how his daughter looked so happy with Erween, he reluctantly conceded, with a gentle admonition for Erween to treat her well or else, give his daughter back to him!

There wasn’t a dry eye when father and daughter embraced tearfully. They were soon joined by Erween in a group hug.

The couple will settle in London.*

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Behind The Scenes - July 17, 2014 : Bing's Birthday Celebration

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   It was time for the people of Bacolod to hear what our congressman, Evelio “Bing” Leonardia, of the lone district of Bacolod, was doing in Congress. His birthday celebration July 10 at the Garden Royale, Goldenfields Complex in Bacolod City, was a most opportune time for Bing’s State of the District Address.

    The crowd began gathering at the venue as early as 10 a.m. for the Holy Mass, concelebrated by Frs. Mao Buenafe and Belarmino Obordo. It was a heady mix of politicians, businessmen, academe, movers and shakers, media, civic leaders, supporters and well wishers, etc. A burst of thunderous applause greeted Rep Bing, who arrived with wife Elsa and daughter Kara.

    The program began immediately after the mass, and everyone was eager to hear the congressman’s report to the district. Bing began his report with a description of his assuming his congressional seat at the height of the PDAF scandal and the abolition of the pork barrel funds.

    Being a neophyte congressman, he said he refused to accept that “our congressional leadership would rise or fall on the issue of pork alone”. He then went from one Cabinet secretary to another, from office to office, seeking ways and means for the realization of a dream for a better Bacolod. His efforts paid off because while the lone district lost P35 million in PDAF funds for 2013, and another P70 million for 2014, it actually got P892,843,735 worth of public works and infrastructure projects in the last 12 months!

    The congressman then reported in detail the kind of projects the money would go to, which was met with continuous applause from the audience. He also revealed that as a representative, he is a member of eight different committees and is senior vice chair of Transportation, which is probably the highest committee position a neophyte could get in this 16th Congress.

    He has already filed 43 bills in the last 31 work weeks of Congress: an efficiency rating of 1.4 bills per week. These bills have immense significance not just to the nation but especially to the lone district of Bacolod.

    After his impressive SODA, the birthday celebration began with a sumptuous luncheon enjoyed by all the guests. Congratulations, congressman, on your job well done and HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Bing!*

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Behind The Scenes - July 10, 2014 : How Do You Keep The Music Playing?

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How can two people stay in love for 45 years?

We should ask our dear friends, Nene and Mellie (Mejeca) Leonardia, who recently celebrated their 45 th wedding anniversary in a joyful and intimate celebration at their well-appointed home in Santa Clara Subdivision, Bacolod City, with family members and friends.

Nene looked handsome and debonair in his barong, while Mellie was radiant in a pale blue outfit that was elegant in its simplicity. Fr. Felix Pasquin, a close family friend, officiated at the ceremony.

As the couple renewed their vows, the crowd burst out laughing when Nene answered, “I do!” in a loud voice when asked by the priest, “Do you take this woman to be your lawful wedded wife…?”

The reception was held at the sprawling garden, that was made festive with a big beautiful white tent draped with sheer gauzy swaths from the ceiling, while a 3-piece band entertained the guests with songs of yesteryears. Everyone enjoyed the mouth-watering dishes specially made for the occasion. Red wine was served to those who cared to have a drink while the rest enjoyed the delicious refreshing concoctions from the refreshment station.

Friends kept asking the couple what was the secret of their successful marriage. With a smile, Nene said it takes love, hard work and respect for each other. To this, Mellie could only smile and nod her head shyly. I couldn't help remembering the lyrics of my favorite song which I found so apropos, “How do you keep the music playing, how do you make it last…How do you keep the song from fading too fast?...

Ahhh, that's love!*

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Thursday, July 03, 2014

Behind The Scenes - July 3, 2014 : WOW’s Induction, Birthdays

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There’s never a dull moment in a WOW gathering.

These “Women of Wonders” always manage to make each occasion a fantastic must-go happening. Not even a heavy thunderstorm and windswept rains could prevent the ladies from attending the recent second joint birthday celebration and induction of members at the Ambience Hall of the Bacolod Pavillon Hotel.

As soon as the slightly-soaked guests arrived, they were served delicious red wines especially chosen by WOW president Inday Pefianco. Soon, the hall was filled with elegantly dressed members with their favorite blings designed to compete with the brilliance of the fantastic lights in the venue.

Judge Lorna Demonteverde, in a form-fitting black dress with a stunning décolletage, inducted the members of the club. Talented member Aimee Villa entertained the audience with her upbeat songs ala Nora Jones. There were 10 birthday celebrators, who blew the candles on the huge birthday cake while the entire club sang Happy Birthday. The dance floor was filled with the adventurous members, who performed the Line Dance amid much laughter and ribbing from the audience.

Dinner was a special presentation of superbly-done dishes, which had the guests coming back for seconds. Then, it was time to let your hair down and dance, dance, dance! The entire room was swinging with ballroom dancers, who ripped up the dance floor with their unbridled energy as they danced till they dropped!

What a swellegant, elegant party it was!*

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Behind The Scenes - June 26, 2014 : Broadcasting Towards a Greener Future

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It was a nostalgic evening for us, when the Kapisanan ng mga Brodkaster sa Pilipinas NegOcc Chapter, held its induction of officers recently at L'Fisher Hotel in Bacolod City.

I haven't seen my old KBP group in a very long while, and seeing my former co-KBP chairman Cornelio Mayang brought back happy memories of the halcyon days when I was KBP chairman during the Martial Law years. It was a time for endless seminars to upgrade the broadcast industry where we almost always stayed at 5-star hotels in Manila. We held fiercely-fought sports events, exciting Tabby Awards ala Oscars, picnics, etc. Ahh, those were the days!

During this year's KBP induction, I noticed the new breed of broadcasters, who exuded the same enthusiasm, fervor and commitment that we had, way back then. The officers are Jopy Plotria, chairman, Leilani Alba - vice chairman, Grace Visitacion - secretary, Paul Moles - treasurer, and Jeony Bigay - auditor. After the induction of officers, the guest speaker, Gov. Alfredo Marañon Jr., gave a most inspiring speech with emphasis on the evening's theme, “Broadcasting Towards a Greener Future”.

The governor's speech had a touch of urgency for everybody to pay close attention to global warming, especially with the advent of super storms, earthquakes, tsunamis, floods, etc. He urged the media to keep the public aware of the dangers we are all facing if we remain complacent and ignore the warnings that mother earth is giving. It was a sobering food for thought, indeed.

Congratulations to the new officers of KBP, NegOcc Chapter!*

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Behind The Scenes - June 19, 2014 : Mely’s Memorable Birthday Bash

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A very popular lady recently celebrated her birthday and it was fabulous!

Looking regal and sublimely happy, our birthday celebrator, Mely Gonzales of Mely’s Garden Restaurant, greeted her numerous friends, and well-wishers, who trooped to their favorite restaurant to greet her on her natal day.

The place was bursting at the seams with people, undisputed proof of Mely’s popularity and esteem. Members of Bacolod’s social scene, including the WOW Ladies, led by Inday Pefianco, were there in full force to enliven the day for the celebrator and make the occasion really special. Excited voices and deafening laughter filled the room as everyone enjoyed the expertly-crafted delicacies that kept coming in from the kitchen. It was gastronomic heaven!

There was that atmosphere of fellowship and delightful sociability which makes a party a delightful celebration. Everybody was so merry and so filled with the joy of living. What a scene! This gorgeous group of ladies in Bacolod really know how to have a good time.

Through it all, our Mely made every guest feel welcome as she flitted from table to table with aplomb and her great big smile, urging each one to have some more of the never-ending, mouth-watering dishes that kept appearing at the buffet. The afternoon sun was gently setting in the horizon when we decided to call it a day.

After this swanky soiree, we can truly call our Mely, “The host with the most!” HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MELY!*

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Behind The Scenes - June 12, 2014 : A Glittering Zonta Affair

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It was an evening of elegance when the Zonta Club of Bacolod held the induction of officers for 2014-2016 and the new members at the Nature's Village in Talisay City, Negros Occidental, recently.

There was a distinct note of refined taste all throughout the evening. Zontians and guests came in their finest Filipiniana attire, complete with sparkling jewelry, while the men looked dashing in their barongs. The dining hall was bathed in soft light to dramatic effect.

Gleaming cutlery was complemented by dainty napkins while each table had a centerpiece filled with foliage. Each guest was warmly welcomed by the Zontians as they were ushered to their tables. Dinner was absolutely divine. Everyone enjoyed themselves as they savored expertly-crafted dishes especially concocted for the occasion.

The induction of new members was officiated by Dr. Flor Miel of Zonta Club of Cebu II, while the induction and installation of officers was officiated by Elena Chiongbian-Young, also of Zonta Club of Cebu II. Negros Occidental first lady, Dr. Marilyn Marañon, delivered an inspiring acceptance speech after her induction as the new club president, where she revealed her plans and dreams for the club. Her husband, Gov. Alfredo Marañon Jr., was wildly applauded when he presented her with a beautiful bouquet of flowers after her speech.

The other officers are Suzette Lacson - vice president, Edna Pahilanga - secretary, Carissa Maalat - treasurer, Belen Elizalde - auditor, and Manon Hernaez, Lina Lim, Laniebelle Javelosa and Nina Arceo - directors.

The guest speaker, Chiongbian-Young, impressed the audience with her eloquent and enlightening speech on what it means to be a Zontian. Guests commented on how well-organized the entire affair was. Kudos to the organizers for a terrific job. Well done!*

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Thursday, June 5, 2014

Thursday, June 05, 2014

Behind The Scenes - June 5, 2014 : Spectacular! Breathtaking!

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It was an experience not easily forgotten. This was the Inaugural Bacolod Tango Blitz held recently at Ambiance, Bacolod Pavillon.

Guest performers were the Argentine couple from Buenos Aires: Analia Carreño, she with the “body-to-die-for”, and Luis Ramirez, he with the “looks that could kill”. The place was soon filled with Bacolod’s glamorous set who came in full force. The ladies in elegant evening attire, bedecked in sparkling jewelry, all eager to see the masters of Argentine Tango perform the “world’s most passionate and sophisticated dance”.

Soon, the lights focused on the dance floor and there they were - Analia looked luminescent and radiant in a form-fitting shimmering gown that showed every curve, every line of her incredible figure. Luis looked like a dashing and debonair Steven Seagal in his tuxedo.

As they slowly began their dance, we could see why the tango is also called “the dance of seduction”. Every look or movement is filled with intense passion. The experience is one of those “ahhh” moments – you just can’t quite figure out what you’re seeing, yet you marvel.

While we sat in rapture, we were visually dazzled and wildly entertained by the spectacular movements of the two artists. A collective gasp of terror erupted from the audience when Luis twirled Analia way up above him and suddenly caught her in mid-air, holding her suspended on his upraised left arm with such mastery of style that one slip would surely have catastrophic consequences. It looked so dramatically effortless that the audience forgot to breathe!

Wotta show! Kudos to the organizers for an exhausting but totally exhilarating evening!*

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Behind The Scenes - May 29, 2014 : John O's Big Bash

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He is one of the most popular guys in Bacolod. Everyone loves former congressman John Orola. He oozes charm, laughter, intelligence, pizzazz, sex appeal (?) and so much more.

So, on his birthday recently, he was honored with a big surprise birthday bash by his loving family at Imelda's Restaurant in Bacolod. The place was swinging with music and excitement by the time we arrived. It was packed wall-to-wall with people: John's big family, friends, admirers, business partners, supporters and fans. Sister Fanny Balenia was the perfect emcee with her Chicago accent.

An upbeat 3-pc band set the mood for the evening with excellent performances by gifted local performers. But the one who brought the house down was a charismatic tall young tenor, Nic Norman Tugaff, who sang classical songs and other favorites, like “Nessun Dorma”, “Mutya ng Pasig” and many more, with an unusually powerful voice that rocked the entire room at the loudest decibels you can imagine. Each song was met with rapturous applause from the audience.

Dinner was a plethora of mouth-watering dishes that created havoc with our waistlines. Then John took center stage as he belted out his signature songs to the delight of the audience. Happiness was written all over his face as he blew the candle on the huge birthday cake, together with his beloved Mamang, who is still spry and active as ever at 94!

John's special guests were officers from the Lancaster Group, one of the country's fastest growing property developers, who are all set to fully develop 87 hectares, including John's property, Oroland, in the southern part of the city; envisioned to provide the lifestyle that Bacolod truly deserves.

Wow, John, you are truly lucky and blessed. I guess when a person is as kind and wonderful as you are, good things do happen. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JOHN!*

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Behind The Scenes - May 22, 2014 : A Lovely Summer Afternoon

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There is nothing as pleasurable as spending a summer afternoon in a lovely garden. It is even more delightful if it is with your friends and fellow garden lovers.

The Negros Occidental Garden Club’s Sampaguita Group decided to hold their special presentation recently at the enchanting garden of Linda and Emy Yulo, with its lush, verdant plants all around the inviting swimming pool. The attendance was amazing as the huge number of guests filled the lanai, spilling out to the serenity of the green grassy area.

The Sampaguita Group is chaired by Tess Yusay, with Mepa Conde, 1st vice chair, and Robert Harland, 2nd vice chair; and Linda Yulo, Ivy Visitacion, Gloria Gensoli, Mely Gonzales, Hazel Guerrero, Emma Montinola, Mercy Lopez, Hazel Stuart, Perla Leonardia and Julie Carbon, as members. All cooperated in making the presentation a successful affair.

For entertainment, Robert suggested that the members lip-synch and dance to “I Enjoy Being A Girl”, that the members enthusiastically endorsed. Linda took care of the merienda cena while the rest helped in gathering garden decors for the presentation theme “Decors for a Garden”.

Everyone enjoyed the divinely-inspired cuisine, courtesy of Wacky’s, that was arrayed on the buffet. A decadent chocolate cake was served for the May birthday celebrants, represented by Mila Chiu. As the afternoon sun began to settle in the horizon, the guests slowly dispersed, still raving about what a great time they had.

Thank you and kudos to the Sampaguita Group!*